Wednesday, January 16, 2013
Man's Woman vs. Woman's Woman
There are two women in this world; the man's woman and the woman's woman. A man's woman is a woman who is "team man." She is most likely in a relationship, "in love," and will do anything for a man. Typically, these women rarely have successful relationships with other women. They often are social inept and cannot manage to have positive and healthy connections with their own sex. The woman's woman is a woman's confidante. She is willing to go to any length to see women accomplish something in life. She is also respectful of the challenges and setbacks women have faced and always makes it a point to support women above all else. The main redeeming and truly amazing quality about the woman's woman is the mere fact that she has balance. She can be a true friend to another woman and love a man at the same time. She does not choose the admiration of a man over her own gender and manages to always be loyal. I have recently come into contact with a mutant strain of the man's woman in the last few months and I can honestly say I am repulsed by their behavior. It is not so much that they love a man beyond understanding, but rather they cannot find the delicate balance of relationship/female loyalty. This particular quality about them truly bothers me because I feel like no woman should ever side with penis over their own vagina! Maybe it is the feminist in me or the fact that I have not been so fortunate in love, but I do know one thing for certain; no matter how many romantic engagements I entertain or girls I meet, I will always be a woman's woman! I could not live any other way!
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I'd be interested in hearing your thoughts on what makes a man's woman and what makes a woman's woman. I can definitely see the bias, and while I'm no proponent of a man's woman, I've seen an overabundance of the latter who take their pride and individuality to extreme lengths at the cost of healthy relationships.
ReplyDeleteI believe that, as with most opposing ideals, there is a balance in which a person can sympathize with both sides and act situationally rather than absolutely.
I agree with the balance aspect as well Ryan. One must be a healthy and balanced person in life in order to avoid negative relationships across the board!
ReplyDeleteI love being a woman, but I am not too much of a woman to be submissive to MY man. I believe modern women always have to struggle with this because we do not have the option to be all things simultaneously. It is the double edge sword of being a woman, but I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world!