Monday, September 13, 2010

Baby Got Fack!

So, after watching the VMA's I have decided I am officially done with "Music Television". MTVs decline is well deserved. How does a channel pride themselves on being a channel that is all about music and as soon as they get the chance they jump on the bandwagon and become VH1 2 complete with dozens of mindless reality shows? Have you no loyalty? No respect?!! That was not what curdled my blood the most, that moment came when I saw a semi- popular, female rapper named Nicki Minaj came out on stage and her derriere was so falsely huge you could see the imprint of the butt pads! It was so sad! Ladies, God made you a certain way for a reason. Drastic measures such as permanent plastic surgeries are scary, but even with a flailing economy, they are up 21% this year! WHY??!!! I remember the days when having an ass was not popular, liked, or even publically embraced! Now people are re-financing their homes for the Brazilian butt lift! When did this happen? Have the Post J-LO days left a void that only fakers like Kim K. and Nicki Minaj can feel? If so, why are they so influential? As a black woman, I have had an ass since the 5th grade. I was always teased and laughed at for my butt. Black women for the majority of our existence were always made to feel bad about their appearance. Our full lips, wide hips, big asses, and thick thighs were not synonymous with attractive. Try that look on a non-black woman and she is exotic, gorgeous, and "different." Why don't we ever get any love for our features??!! The answer has yet to be revealed. This will be a much needed chapter in the book, how to love yourself and not alienate reality!

2 comments:

  1. Good post! Societal pressure plays a big part in shifting the perception that men and women have about themselves. Also, years of community criticism(You know how our people can be sometimes.)

    Some of that plastic surgery is hideous. Have you seen Lil Kim lately? And the butts are getting out of control. I see really small women in stature paying to get these ginormous butts. It's crazy!

    The VMAs was an epic fail. Do they even show videos anymore?

    Bless

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  2. Jason,
    Thank you so much for your insight. You are so right the pressures are enormous. Unfortunately, we as humans do not band together and decide to fight back because there is power in numbers! If we will all fight back at our oppressors, THE MEDIA!!! I am officially done with MTV, music television my ass! Thanks for your opinions.


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    Oriel Martin

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